There are 5 problems faced by married couples that should be avoided in order to prevent a divorce from happening. Feelings bottled up inside can explode into huge annoyances if relationship issues are ignored or denied. Having the expectation that a relationship subsists itself is dangerous because both partners have to put in effort for it to work. Blaming your partner results in disconnection, which could be prevented if both parties communicated. Time for one another is important and a lack of it could mean disconnection. If one person is putting in more work into tasks than the other, arguments about cleaning or other housework will happen.