When you are the other woman after an affair there are many lessons that you learn, whether or not you really want to learn them. And, those lessons are oftentimes painful and those who’ve been cheated on feel them intensely inside their hearts. You learn that being a mistress isn’t glamourous, and you learn that sometimes you do things that even surprise you. ANd, there’s so much more you will find that you learn after this situation.
- The mistress is a real person too with real feelings and they typically never have dreams of becoming a mistress it just happens
- The author was able to find peace with herself and forgiveness from the wife but it still took a long time for her to heal from he guilt and pain.
- It’s good to find out what your pain and pleasure ratio is in all aspects of life so that you know your limits
“Forgive yourself for not being perfect. Nobody is. You had to learn this lesson, now it may be time to move on and live your life.”