January has earned the moniker “Divorce Month,” but it doesn’t have to be a daunting time of year for you. If you are willing to put in the work, marriage can last a lifetime. This isn’t some task where only you have a say in the outcome. This is a group project in which someone else has 50% say. The most important thing to remember is to only get married if you are ready. Don’t let someone else’s views force you into a situation in which you are not comfortable. This only leads to resentment and regret.