Every couple fights. The key to fighting with a partner is making sure it is done in a healthy way. According to Pastor John Gray, unhealthy fights involve saying things to your partner because you know it will hurt them. it is important in a fight not to try to make your partner feel bad. if you have done that, step away so that each party can regain focus. then apologize and try to fight better next time. That is a healthy fight.
- When you purposely hit below the belt in a sense to hurt the other person
- Allow your partner to be able to heal from the hurt you caused before you talk about the issue
- Always but boundaries in an argument because this will let the other person understand your limits
“But it’s like shooting somebody in the thigh and then saying, Can you forgive me right now?’”