A few years after my parents divorced through mediation, my dad said he wanted to go back to mediation and cut my mom off from his health plan? Is this legal/allowed?
Normally, at most jobs, an ex-spouse cannot be on the insurance of the other spouse. She is no longer considered a family member of the employee. In CT one can get 2 or 3 years of insurance under COBRA and after that, unfortunately you are out of luck. I became one of those millions without insurance until I was lucky enough to find a job that gave me insurance.