One of the worst things there can be for relationships is insecurity. It can be a crazy cycle of love and disappointment. Will this can be a serious problem it is possible to break this cycle. You need to be secure in yourself to make you and your lover feel good about the relationship.
- I manipulated an ex-girlfriend once. Years ago, when I was in a toxic relationship with someone I loved, I lied to get a reaction out of her.
- I told her I was going to watch her soccer game, but I never showed. It was something very out of character for me to do.
- Throughout the year of our relationship, I always had the feeling that I was investing more into our relationship than she was.
“Extensive research on intimate relationships have shown that people behave in very predictable ways when we are in love.”