Other thinking.
If there is one lesson I have learned as a result of my divorce it is that once I can move away from other-thinking the closer I am to healing. Other thinking. It can be insidious. At first you are thinking of your other, soon to be ex, when you are in the turmoil that leads to separation. Many of your sentences begin with ” If only he would …” ‘Why can’t she be more like”, “I can’t believe he did that!”
Just after separation you may cut him out of yo…
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Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it. – Lou Holtz
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