People whose parents split up might fret more about their serious relationship dissolving perhaps seemingly out of nowhere. That’s because our view of commitment may be altered by the divorce, a New York-based marriage and sex therapist. “Be aware that their feelings about commitment and getting married may have been impacted by the divorce.” Kids of divorce may feel a greater need to know where they stand with their partner. “They will do better when they have clarity about where things are going in the relationship.” Feeling secure allows for more openness and more personal sharing.