My wife left my three boys and I two years ago, and she has not even called any of our kids even once in the last two years, not even for any of their birthdays. Because of a four-car accident on September 4, 2007, I am not able to work!
This Monday I will go to mediation with my lawyer to meet with my wife and her lawyer. I don’t know what to expect!!!!! Can you help me?
Even though she has none visited or called the children in two years, she bizarrely is fighting for custody of the kids anyways, which has cost me $13,000 just for divorce lawyer fees alone. However, my three boys are doing wonderfully in school, and they are very happy with many friends. In addition, are there pro bono lawyers for divorce? Thank you for your time.
Don’t agree to anything. Go away, think about it, and come back (if this is allowed).
Document, document, documents like the others said.
Let your lawyer speak for you.
She will LIE and possibly accuse of things that made her run away like domestic abuse or say you didn’t allow her to see the kids. DON’T LOOSE YOUR COOL!!!
Write down points you’d like to redress and do so in a calm manner.